Love is such a thing - it is the most beautiful feeling in the world, but not a subject thought in school; so, it is sometimes not very easy handle it. Am I in love? What if I'm in love? Or even unhappily in love?
These are only a few of the many questions around the topic, love; which many people ask. The fact is: feelings are felt subjectively, that is, each person has a different way of expressing feelings, therefore love can mean different things. So, how do you know if you're in love? And what if I'm in love? Fortunately, there are signs that are almost the same for almost everybody. Certain behavioural patterns and thought processes clearly reveal that someone is in love. This also applies in the event of you being unhappily in love – More coming later.
You can't sleep anymore, because your crush smiled at you or waved at you? You imagine what the body contact with the person would be like and get very nervous? Congratulations - then you are most likely in love!
First of all, you realize that, you are in love when your feelings boil up and you have to think about that person all the time. It is no coincidence that scientists compare the state of being in love with a drug frenzy! Hormones are released and the entire emotional world is turned upside down - If you are happily in love , the overall feeling is like a lasting euphoria of happiness that accompanies you through every day of your life and makes everything feel more beautiful. Negative things no longer weigh so heavily on you and becomes easier to bear. That's where the say "wearing pink glasses" comes from!
Furthermore you recognize a real infatuation, by the fact that your body functions changes. The feeling is so strong that it affects your physical condition. You may not be able to sleep properly because you are constantly thinking about your crush and can't wait for you people to meet again.
You get hot and cold when you see him/her, and die of nervousness minutes later. That makes you realize that this person really means something to you!
Before a meeting you have a pleasant pulling in the stomach area, which is a mixture of nervousness and anticipation. Even if these feelings can be very strenuous - enjoy these new body feelings, because they will constantly accompany you in the initial phase.
Do you usually go for sports on Tuesdays afternoons? Have the weekend been reserved for activities with friends? Are you not really a football fan?
Suddenly you are seen on sports field on Saturdays because you don't want to miss your crush’s game. You're saving Tuesday night in case he/she wants to ask you out. When you're really in love, you'll find that your behaviour changes - and you throw even stubborn habits overboard. You should just make sure you don't neglect your friends, despite everything.
You have never thought about your own four walls, but would like to move into a common house with your crush? You started saving money so you can maybe go on holiday together during summer?
Then you're one hundred percent in love! One side effect of being in love is that, you start secretly making plans for the future in which the swarm occurs. You imagine what you could do and do together. Suddenly the topic of the future is important and interesting - it invites you to dream. If your counterpart comes around the corner with similar things, you can be pretty sure that he/she is also serious.
If you are in love, you would like to have your crush around you all day long - and suddenly feel a great longing for closeness and physical tenderness. A kiss or a hug have a completely different meaning and can be so beautiful that you can still think of it, even days later. Also, an increased in desired feelings can answer the question " Am I in love?" because after all, you want to devour the object of desire using your hair and skin. Lovers need a lot of closeness to the body and affection to be able to live love out.
I'm still not sure about my feelings.
Since feelings can often be very confusing, especially in the early phase of infatuation, it is not always easy to know whether you are actually in love or you are just liking someone as a person. And maybe you're not sure if your crush is in love with you either. We also offer a test for this. Below you will find more love tests that might suit you.
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